You feel you are on top of the world. And why not, the girl you have always dreamed of spending your life together has finally said yes. She is pretty and sexy, what more can a man ask for. You feel you are just too lucky to have her. However, you are not alone in your admiration as all the other men's eyes are on her too. You do all your best to secure her and give the other guys your most menacing glare as if to say "Back off, she's my girl." Before you know it, the green-eyed monster has started to rear its head and believe you to have to watch her very closely. You monitor all her whereabouts, her activities and her companions. Without so much of a mention of her past loves, you fly into a fit of rage.

You have not felt like this before but you have no control over the pangs of jealousy that makes you unreasonable. You devise ways to control her time and attention by showering her with generous gifts, posh vacation trips, dinners in expensive restaurants, everything your money can buy, except your peace of mind. With these material benefits you expect her to give you top priority in everything and completely separate her from everything and everybody that she used to enjoy and love. Her girlfriends have started to get incensed by your all too controlling ways.

Looking at you on the outside, you have no reason to be insecure, so what could have caused you to harbor all these distrust? Perchance your past love took a wrong turn and you are resolved not to let the same thing ruin your relationship. In your mind, this is the way to totally control her and keep her to yourself.

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Some men would love to be in the shoes of other men who they feel are better than them, they want to have his girlfriend, drive his car, live in his house, have his high paying job, believing that if he has more money, he can give more to his lady and make him the sole love of her life.

Men are not so different from women in wanting to be treated with utmost love and respect. If they are currently in a relationship, it is but natural for them to wish that their partner would stay devoted and in love exclusively with them.

What do you do to stop this unwarranted pang of jealousy? Do some self evaluation. There might be some things that you need to change in you. You might have to take up a hobby or sports to get more exercise or take up courses to update yourself. Vital to any relationship is the building up of trust. You can go crazy just trying to account for your partner's activities and her feelings. Give her your full devotion and respect and she will give you back the same. If she does not, you have to let her go because she does not deserve you.